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sumesh kumar
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Mar 27, 2006,12:11 pm
| That is a critical situation if the girl depends on relation with the guy verymuch. If he didn't accept her position then one thing you can do is make his mind soft using an affectional way. The worst solution atlast is just giveup such conditions. |
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Parvathy
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Mar 29, 2006,9:09 am
| she has to decide on what she gives more importants to-- career or relationship. |
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Varghese Mathew
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Mar 29, 2006,3:30 pm
relationships have ups and downs.. the whole point is to smoothen them out, and here is where soft skills come in.. you have the other choice to throw it away just like that and walk out too..
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<br>let me put it this way.. if the problem with the guy is that he faces social pressures out of the situation, but really loves the girl, then things can and should be talked out and smoothened out.. there's actually nothing bad in being less successful than your female partner..
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<br>another possiblity is that the guy does not get enough of the girl emotionally/intimacywise/sexually or whatever because of the career demands of the girl..
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<br>a third possiblity is that the guys own mind makes him feel he's not as good as his wifr/girl.. this kind of a case can arise when the person starts imagining that the society considers him inferior to his girl.. i actually believe that this situation is a consequence of the former case where the guy is not getting enough of the girl..
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<br>there is always also a possibility that the guy is seriously immature, or that the guy doesn't actually love the girl and so the fact that the girl is better off than himself just gives him another excuse.. |
 
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Varghese Mathew
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Mar 29, 2006,3:39 pm
To sum it all up, if both are committed towards making the relationship work, then both should make a point to spend time with each other..
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<br>Management people often comes up with the question of quantity time and quality time..
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<br>more than how much time you spend, what is important is how well you spend howmuchever small time you spent together..
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<br>Just silently having evening coffee together, going out somewhere, just reaching out and touching, a hug, a quick little kiss, just going over to sit with the other person, all can say lots more than a hundred words.. |
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krithi
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Mar 31, 2006,10:18 am
The problem here is the weightage given to both love and career by both the girl and the guy. If the girl is more successful then there are two situations- either she develops complex of superiority or she feels that her guy should cooperate.
<br>And believe me, if the guy and girl are TRULY in LOVE, then i think these barriers will be nothing! It's not something impossible, it is just a bit difficult! |
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Savar
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May 5, 2006,2:45 pm
love will make you to accept ur partner... i dont think there will be some thing as you mentioned, 'difficult to accept'. may be just difficult not an impossible one.
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